James Lehman's Total Transformation Program Review Lesson 7

Total Transformation Program Review Lesson 7 – How to Stop It Before It Starts

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In lesson 7 of the Total Transformation Program, James Lehman points out how to avoid a bad situation from happening or how to refrain a situation from worsening.

James, Behavioral Therapist and creator of the program doesn’t believe in anger management. He doesn’t debate with it but his opinion on anger management is really what is known as Trigger Management. If you have an oppositional defiant disorder, ADD/ADHD, disrespectful, lying, anger, abusive kid at home, trigger management is critical because overwhelming emotions can be the root of all problems. Kids can show anger, fear of loss, separation, injustice, anxiety and so on in response to triggers.

In such situations, we need to cultivate Thought Management. Thought management is self talk within them like asking yourself questions such as ‘What do I gain if i act on impulse?’ or ‘What can I do to make the situation better?’. Tell yourself that there’s nothing you can do to change the past but you can control the future by behaving appropriately and avoid the matter from turning worse.

If another kid call yours a bully, pain in the neck or loser, tell your kid there’s nothing he can really do to stop the piss. What he can do is to control his feeling and emotions and not to mess up with him. If he make the matter bigger, he only have himself to blame.

Kids do not have skills to sooth themselves. Kids have kids ability and adult have theirs. They are incapable of managing that overwhelming emotions like an adult and therefore we as parents have to help them in thoughts management and how to stop something from happening before it starts.

Total Transformation Program is really about how to parent in a way that children will listen and be respectful. This award winning program had sold over 200,000 copies. This behavior modification program comes in seven CDs and Jump Start DVD, Parent Workshop DVD, Bonus One Minute Transformation CD and a workbook. This program is worth $327 but you can now try it out for 30 days free.